Lately, I’ve been embracing “slow blogging”- although not necessarily by choice- I have to admit that I love the idea. I think that I actually wrote some of my favorite posts over the last couple of weeks. Not having to stress about writing every day, meant that I was able to create the kind of content I really wanted and give it 100%. I talked a little about why I haven’t been around much and everything else that’s going on in the When Life Gives You Lemons post (which was actually published in June). While I only published about two handfuls of posts, I was still getting a lot of “blog work” done- mainly working on updating my old posts, something we discussed in Blog tips: How to Increase Traffic by Updating Old Blog Posts.
I kind of had to work extra hard on keeping up my spirits, as every single day after my accident I had to deal with a new obstacle and at one point I just sat on my living room floor, surrounded by countless papers, business cards, letters and messages, and started to cry. Honestly, even simple things like setting up a rental car can be a pain in the ass, when you’re dealing with someone else’s insurance. Add having to deal with an injury on top of that, and it can put a lot of stress on you. The first thing I thought was “why is this happening to me?” The second thing that crossed my mind, was “take it one step at a time.” And ever since I took that attitude, I felt like I was regaining control. One step at a time- this is the only thing you can do when feeling overwhelmed with pretty much anything. And so, as I was working on keeping my attitude positive, I also wrote about 15 Simple Ways to Rejuvenate Your Mind, Body, and Spirit and talked about some things that help me get a little softer and add more fun and life to my day.
Nighttime Anxiety: What to Do When Your Anxious Mind Won’t Let You Sleep– I really loved writing this piece, as bedtime anxiety is something I’ve been struggling with a lot this year, and I loved sharing a few things, products, and rituals that helped me with my anxiety. Even though I don’t think that self-care is a one-size-fits-all kind of thing, I still think that everyone should have a little Self-Care Kit; a box of things that comfort you, pick up up a little, help you relax and pamper not just your skin, but also your soul. Most recently, we also talked about some mental habits; like focusing on things you don’t want, or caring what other people think- that steal your happiness in this post.
I also talked about some of my summer beauty essentials, using affirmations to boost confidence and, like every month, I talked about a bunch of products that currently sit in my makeup bag.
I hope your August is off to a great start- I rarely ever say this, but July did seem to just fly by, so I’m hoping that August will drag its feet a little. :)
29 Comments
Meghan Baxter
August 3, 2017 at 1:06 pmI love the idea of slow blogging. I think it can quickly feel stifling when trying to be creative on a deadline.
Meghan | The Lipstick Philosopher
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
August 3, 2017 at 1:20 pmYes, I totally agree!
Tina Zeno Stepp
August 3, 2017 at 1:15 pmJust wanted to say how much I enjoy reading your articles 😃 Thanks
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
August 3, 2017 at 1:20 pmThank you SO much!! xx
LuxeStyle
August 3, 2017 at 1:42 pmSorry to hear you’ve been through a bit of a tough time lovely. I think it’s so nice to take your time with blogging sometimes and be more relaxed – I really couldn’t post every day x
Jenny | LuxeStyle
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
August 6, 2017 at 9:55 amI loved blogging daily during the week, but it can definitely be a little stressful sometimes, especially when you want to create quality content. Thank you so much, Jenny!
Natalie Ford
August 3, 2017 at 2:11 pmI’m glad to hear you are on the mend! Sorry you have had a rough time since the accident! I do hope August drags it’s feet a little too and that you feel lots better soon! 😘 xxx
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
August 6, 2017 at 9:56 amThank you so much, Natalie, sending love!
Linda Libra Loca
August 3, 2017 at 4:21 pmAugust is my vacation month, so I hope it will drag its feet. But as time flies when you are having fun I am not entirely sure if this is going to happen…
Linda, Libra, Loca: Beauty, Baby and Backpacking
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
August 6, 2017 at 9:56 amAhh yes, that’s the problem with having fun- time just flies by :)
Daria Ed
August 3, 2017 at 4:32 pmLove this! Beautiful blog post x
Good job on your blog
-Daria
http://dariaed.com/
https://www.bloglovin.com/blogs/daria-edu-19010657
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
August 6, 2017 at 9:56 amThanks
Abigail Alice
August 3, 2017 at 5:09 pmi’m going to check out your post on increasing blog traffic to old posts, thanks for the link!
Abigail Alice x
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
August 6, 2017 at 9:57 amHope you will find it helpful :)
The Makeup Feed
August 3, 2017 at 5:17 pmI love these roundup posts! Amazing job!
xx, The Makeup Feed
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
August 6, 2017 at 9:57 amThanks Love!
Asaake | Asakemi.com
August 3, 2017 at 7:19 pmLove this roundup! I loved how reading through this I was like “yeah, I remember that post, Paula” 💃🏾. Read the all. And can we talking about how your pills make amazing flat lay prop? Haha.
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
August 6, 2017 at 9:57 amAww hehe you’re so sweet, girl, thank you so much!
SofiaaDot
August 4, 2017 at 3:10 amLovely roundup!! Gorgeous post :)
xx Sofia | SOFIAADOT
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
August 6, 2017 at 9:57 amThanks, Sofia.
Aleksandra // bunniesaremagic
August 4, 2017 at 5:06 amTaking life slow is the only way to catch up on everything – paradoxically. Rushing into a pile of stuff may sound like a good idea at first, but getting overwhelmed will sooner or later just stop us and nothing will get done.
Hope you’ll be getting better and better with each day! <3
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
August 6, 2017 at 9:58 amThanks so much, Alex! It definitely can feel overwhelming, trying to get into everything all at once.
Demilade Aina
August 4, 2017 at 5:16 amYou’re right, when you feel overwhelmed taking things step by step is certainly the way to go. Glad you’re in a better place now Paula :)
Coco Bella Blog
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
August 6, 2017 at 9:58 amThank you, Love!
Jennifer@Kitchen Serf
August 4, 2017 at 9:11 amSorry to hear you’ve had an accident! Even minor ones can be quite traumatizing. I wish you a speedy recovery.
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
August 5, 2017 at 11:10 amThank you so much Jennifer! I appreciate that! x
MihaBalan
August 5, 2017 at 2:16 amPaula, I can imagine you are going through an awful time now but hang in there, it will take time but you will get past this. I still enjoy your posts and I am extremely happy for the help you gave me with Pinterest. So in the worst case, wait until I will get big then I will mention your website all the time hahaha, Miha :)
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
August 5, 2017 at 11:10 amHahaha, thank you so much Miha, you’re seriously such a sweetheart!! Sending love your way!
Kiri Yanchenko
August 7, 2017 at 6:24 pmJuly really did fly buy.
I have a lot of work to do August and September before I leave for London and Russia.
While I hope that my holiday comes soon – I need August to go slow so I can finish everything.
Ha ha.
But I know since I am busy it will probably fly by too.
I hope you are having an ok time of everything after your accident.
Kiri
Set to Glow
http://www.settoglow.com.au